Emily Jane Mander

1976 - 2008
LocationOxford
Age31 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth05/09/1976
Date of Death22/02/2008
Visitors5,211 since 08/10/2008
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Emily was a great friend. Always up for a giggle and always a shoulder to cry on when needed. I just wish I could have spoken to her the night she died and maybe, just maybe she'd still be here now.

RIP Emily. I miss your random late night calls, your crazy ideas, your infectious giggle and gorgeous smile xxxx

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New Year Wish x

Emily, If I could have one wish granted to me it would be that we would have spent this Xmas and New Year and many more together. Just today would be enough. I miss you too much. Love always Lou xXxOoOxXx

Louise O'Connor

4 weeks ago

merry christmas

Hope you are happy my love wherever you are. Always in my thoughts and my heart

Thinking of you this christmas, Love from mum xxxxx

Katherine Mander (Mother)

December 25, 2011

Christmas

Emily, thinking of you this Christmas. Still miss you with all my heart. Will come and see you soon (gave it a miss this Christmas after the debacle last year). All my love, Sara xxxxxxxx

Sara Kimber (Friend)

December 25, 2011

From the Heart

Emily your so lovely, Like a rare beautiful flower you light up my life in so many ways, I love you so much I can still feel the warmth of your love. Every moment we spent together was a blessing; I can’t believe you’re gone. You are always in my thoughts and in my heart, the time we spent together was the happiest time of my life. Thank you for such happy memories. You will be in my thoughts always.
Your sense of humour your smile brought me so much joy and happiness I will love you always. You were my angel sent from heaven to bring me love and joy. I will never stop loving you. Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Ansel Grandson

Ansel Grandson

September 8, 2011

happy birthday

Just wishing you lots of love with kisses and hugs,jf only i could just see and touch you again.always in my heart and thoughts xxx mum

Katherine Mander (Mother)

September 5, 2011

Birthday Greetings

OK, OK, I know I'm two hours early but I've got this new job, the hours are horrific and I need my beauty sleep!!

Will be thinking of you tomorrow even more so than normal. I still miss you so much it hurts.

Gonna light a candle for you tomorrow night my angel and will be having a little drink in your memory too.

Love you always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sara Kimber (Friend)

September 4, 2011

I miss you xxxx

Emalina, I keep thinking about you, everyday; I miss you so much and cannot process that I will not see you on this earth again during this lifetime. I see people in the street and think it's you, I talk about you regularly. I don't feel like you are gone, I feel like you are still here and that makes me smile. I miss our chats and our funny nights (and days) out. Our crazy conversations, you had everyone in stitches all of the time and I was so proud to have you as my friend. I wish I had been there for you more in the last few years, I am really sorry I was occupied with my own crap. I know I don't have the power to change the outcome of anything but I just wonder if I had been there to listen and share some of your pain.... All I can do is wonder. I am being selfish missing you I know but there is big gap left where you used to be, it would be almost impossible for anyone to fill it.I hope you are smiling sweetie. Love always, Lou xxxxx

Louise O'Connor

August 2, 2011

First Name Last Name

I wish heaven had a phone
So I could talk to you
I thought of you today
But that is nothing new
I thought about you yesterday
And the day before that too
I am thinking of you in silence
I often speak your name
All I have is memories
And pictures in a frame


Thankyou for the time spent with you
Our love will never die I know thats true

Katherine Mander (Mother)

February 22, 2011

Three Years

No words can tell, no flowers repay,
The loss we had three years today.
Till memories fail and life departs,
You will live forever in our hearts.

Love you Em xxxxxx

Sara Kimber (Friend)

February 22, 2011

Beautiful Emmy xxxx

I had a lovely time last night, I could see and feel you all around me. Me and your mum were talking about you non stop and we know you were there with us, listening and laughing and being a little mischeivious too! Thanks for waking us up this morning too, it was a very late night just like the old days and I am suffering now lol. I didn't know till this week that you are having a vacation away from the stress of work and things. I didn't know and I didn't feel it because I know you haven't left me, I know you are with me - I can smell, feel and see you all around me. I do miss that I cannot put my arms around you right now but I know I will in the future. I love you Em, so much it leaves me speechless. You are my soul mate and best friend. But you already know that so I won't go on about eh?! lol. You have my love for infinity and beyond. Speak to ya soon chicken X x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x o O o x

Louise O'Connor

February 13, 2011
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